Well he has a fake Facebook name. I only found it because I wanted to hear some of the songs from his old band from forty years ago. I googled, found some articles, and looked up some of the band members on Facebook just to see what they were up to. I saw a picture with what appeared to be my therapist at like 28 years old with the rest of the band...and it was tagged his fake "name." I clicked, and his was locked, but there was a picture of him tagged that was public with some girl. His girlfriend. Hers was public, and had all this information about him, their relationship, etc.

I really didn't do it with the intent of trying to hurt him or anyone. I was just curious. And it's like now I can't unSEE what I saw. The last time I looked at her page was yesterday, after not looking for months, because I knew it would be unhealthy for me. And I was devastated by what I saw. I just want to tell because holding this **** in for so long kills me...especially knowing that he is and would be open to dating someone my age. She's beautiful. Makes me feel like a complete dog. And he's gonna be angry most likely because he's old and doesn't understand that in this day and age, it's not hard to find information on people.