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Originally Posted by niceguy
I was always told that you say you love someone as soon as you feel it - as they may not be there tom!!
Having said that though, I have only had one other person not reciprocate and I ended up wishing I had waited. Still I felt it, so not saying it would not have changed the feeling anyway.
Honestly, I do not understand why someone would not want to hear it - after all, don't we all just long to be loved?
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But if it happens too quickly, then it's inappropriate and then I'm "creepy" or something. I just attach very quickly and feel feelings much stronger than the average person apparently.
Of course he longs to be loved (as do I). However, he is also very scared as he has been very hurt in the past. I don't think enough time has passed for him to fully believe that I really am going to still be by his side no matter what because the women in his past always dropped him immediately.
I don't know, maybe it's crazy, but I think some people are so perfect together that even from the beginning you know you're meant to be together. It's like we've known each other only a semester, but it's like we've known each other forever. I mean, he can often tell how I'm feeling or what I'm thinking before I say anything. Our strengths and weaknesses complement each other. That sort of thing. And knowing him, I knew I had to wait to say "I love you" and that it would not be a good idea at this point to say I see him beside me for the rest of my life. He's not ready for that yet, but he's getting closer.