It seems like when you are in therapy that you need to have someone that you can work with. Seems like she is in to speed therapy and making all kind of assumptions. I think that you need to find someone that you enjoy working with that you can both figure out what is going on rather than the T making so many assumptions. Things will come out to you if/when it is time....if it has happened. Your T might be bring things up that you need to address but this does not sound like a therapist that would be allowing you input in to your own therapy. lol Go to plan B.