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Originally Posted by BonnieJean
I think it might be that the op is reacting to the fact that her t is a lot older than she is but that t's girlfriend is only 4 years older than op. Can't be talked about because t doesn't know op knows.
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That's true, although I think the same idea may apply here. It depends on the underlying reason to tell the T. Yeah it would have been better for you to have stayed away from the girlfriend's page, but you didn't do any harm. You're really the one in distress since there seems to be a white elephant in the room with you in session. If you'd feel better getting it off your chest, regardless of his reaction, then it might be the best thing to do.