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Originally Posted by Just keep swimming
No problem about thanking us individually. Your thanks at the bottom of the replies means a lot. That's all we need.
And I felt the same way as you, but I was fat and weird. But not all guys like pretty and bubbly. And I've found that the guys who can appreciate other qualities tend to be really cool. My husband thought I was the coolest person in the world and I thought the same of him. We still think each other are pretty neat.
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Your story is eerily similar to mine then. I'm fat and weird myself. Of course, being ugly and socially awkward and boring doesn't help my situation much, either.
I know not all guys like bubbly and pretty girls... But it's been my experience that even the guys who like "alternative" girls completely overlook me, or else they view me in disgust.
I've heard people say that "every type has a fan club". But I've never seen a fan club for girls like me, so I have to assume such a fan club doesn't exist.
I'm glad you ended up finding someone anyway. I really don't feel much hope that I will ever do the same.