Hamster_bamster
Your H sounds like my sister. I kinda failed to get a restraining order on her. And what worked for me was cutting off all contact, And ALL contact and exiting the shared social circles I had with her. It was more then a little depressing but, But it was worth it in the end.

An unpleasant thing with my sister is she did habitually make good on her threats and as distasteful as it might sound when you reroot into a new situation and job you may want to give a few small hints that you have filed for a restraining order.

And I will say this, Even if they deny it. File for it. It establishes a history. And with my sister that is one thing that went a long way from keeping me out of jail when I stopped paying her blackmail money.