Honestly, unless you feel you need to work through something, then I wouldn't say anything. It's not private. It's public. This is the generation of googling people you know and Facebook 'stalking' them (a phrase even my actual friends on FB say and they get my info in their newsfeed). I wonder, if you could resolve the guilt you feel, if you wouldn't feel the need to look him or his girlfriend up all the time.

On the other hand, a conversation might be good in the sense of, "Hey dude, you may want to talk to your girlfriend about tightening security on her profile." I'm of the mindset that teachers and other similar professions need to be on top of privacy settings and that it's *their* responsibility, not mine.

I've found my T's dissertation. He knows I've googled/FB stalked him - it all came up casually. He laughed and was like, "Find anything good?" He works with adolescents though too, his wife is close to my age and he's not that much older than me so my guess is that he knows it's happening and doesn't really care.

I guess for me, when I've decided that something isn't "bad" but normal, then that feeling inside that I'm keeping a secret goes away and I'm like, "Eh. If it comes up then I'll mention it for kicks to see what he says." In my mind, I didn't care what his reaction was. It's public info accessed from my personal computer. It's not like I went through his garbage :P