Ten days from now me and my boyfriend will have been together a year. Ive known him for almost four. I'm so very frustrated and upset today. It is my birthday today and I told him at the beginning of December to keep today free I want to have a movie night. Well over the past two days I've been trying to finalize our plans. I text him : "Can you be here for five?". No response. I ask if he's still coming. he says ya i should be. followed up with a text from me again asking if five o'clock works.... NO response. Text him today. What time should I expect you? No response. Can you be here for five. His response was that he doubts it because he has errands to run. What time can you be here. NO RESPONSE! I never ask for anything in our relationship. I just wanted to spend my birthday with him and he is making it incredibly difficult. He suffers from depression so I let a lot of things go.... but shouldn't he still try to care? Like he does this kind of **** all the time. He hardly ever proves to me that he cares and I feel like I am always showing him how I care. Like, seriously, on my birthday, you couldn't get time off? Your going to show up late at night watch one movie maybe and go home? I'm just feeling like crap today now... What do you guys think? To me it feels like he doesn't care about me as much as I care about him. Could it be just his depression though?