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Happy Birthday

Yes, this time of year is especially difficult for many people. Are you sure that your bf knows that today is your birthday? Or, is it possible that he thinks that today is just another day? If he may not know (or remember) that today is your birthday, than it's just another day in his mind, which does explain how he could be non-commital about coming over.

If you are sure that your bf knows that today is your birthday, then I would recommend talking with your bf about how you are feeling when you see him. Remember to use the "I feel ___ " language, rather than accusatory, of course.

Very best wishes to you. Hope that you're able to get things worked through in a gentle, but healthy manner for both of you, soon!