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We only hung out another couple of times before he asked me to be his girlfriend. I agreed, but it felt a little fast to me, in fact, at this time, he also told me he was in love with me. This was about a month into dating. Everything seemed ok, moving a little fast but ok, until the "in love" thing. To me, that felt like a red flag.
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Feels like that to me too. I always worry about guys who want to rush things, that is a sign of a potential abuser.
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He's already teared up twice in front of me this week, supposedly with tears of joy.
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Supposedly.
It sounds like you don't trust him.
But you're not.
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it feels like he is obsessed with me, and that freaks me out.
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Another potential sign of an abuser, and another sign of your unease.
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I have mental illness in my family so I do not judge or label people by it. But now I do feel that is is acting very obsessed and compulsive over this relationship.
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It isn't judging or labeling people if your
assessment of their actual behavior is that it makes you uneasy.
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I'm certainly into him, but there is just something about how he acts that is sitting uneasy with me.
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Your gut feeling, as mentioned by toolman, seems to be considerable unease.
Gut feelings deserve high respect and full attention.