Thank you all for the feedback. I did go to her apartment after I got off work (I work overnight shifts) and spent the day with her. We talked...a lot. She is giving me another chance. I've unlocked my phone for her.
She doesn't live alone...she still lives with her husband until mid-feb. (they are divorcing).
She has accepted me back but obviously still has her distrust of me...which I completely understand.
So now I'm trying to work sweet and courting actions in to my time with her. I love her. More than I have ever loved anyone. And I can't lose her...