I feel for you right now, more than ever MJ. I am staying with my folks since my Dad had his stroke. My Mom had her birthday this weekend with this huge cake he got her for her birthday. More than half of it is left, over estimating since his mind is not what it used to be. So much cake left. It is not mine to throw out but it is sitting in the fridge painfully there every time I go in. Worse, it is SO damned delicious all those lovely layers of tempting. He spared no expense on this one, so, so very good, all the things cake should be. Argghhhh. A test of will power, guess how it is going? You have my sympathies with your incident as well.