It isn't an empty feeling. We both have decided that we need each other emotionally. We both have separate lives and there is no delusion about him ever leaving his wife and family. He's included me into his circle of love and I have included him. Our attraction is as soulmates for the next life... we are bonding now so that we will recognize each other immediately. The concern is that he needs me to sleep at night (while in bed with his wife). This is strange... he can't sleep unless we are connected.