I'm not sure where to post this one, So here works I guess.

Most of my immediate family is...toxic, As in they seem to think the dsm entries for things like sociopathy and narcissism was a how to guide for how to live your life. And Don't get me wrong I'm not model of mental health ether,But I'm happy being me over here and ignoring the world as best I can most of the time. I have my hobby and I'm making good progress in it all things considered. I'm a year into 3d modeling and I've gone from no skills in art whatsoever to sucking at it. I'm happy with that and I have high hopes for the next year. BTW if you ever want to do something humbling. Sculpt a human face from memory.

But here is my issue, My parents want me to play nice with my sister who likes to do the whole blackmail, manipulation,vandalism, slander and theft thing on me (or anyone else in her life that has some degree of success and happiness) . And explode violently when I express my reluctance to breath the same air as her due to her past actions.

So, any advice on what to do for Christmas dinner, aside from now show up, I kinda got to do that for the next few years, In all practicality my parents do not have many left.