So I'm trying to deal with two of my grandparents. I'm their favorite grandson. They are always trying to invite me over with lame excuses like. We made dinner for you and other things. When I come over to them. They constantly try to push me to eat more than I want to. I don't have a weight problem and I'm also not a kid anymore. This being "pushy" can almost be found in every interaction. When I'm about to leave. They push me to stay and sleep over although they know I don't want to. Or they push me to accept my grandfather's wish to drive me home although I repeat multiple times I want to walk and get some fresh air. How do heck do I deal with this people? It is really getting to me. I can't scream or get angry because they are my grand parents. I try to explain everything nicely and calmly but they are being persistent in their requests. It is like they only care about themselves although they pretend they care about me. They always want things done their way even if it my choice.