Achy Turtle Armor what I am about to say is not meant to be a copout. I have Aspergers Syndrome and BPD they both have black or white thinking so I am double wammied I don't see, think in grey space I have know this since 3rd grade. I can't forget what happened to me as a child was not a "the-rapist", pun intended. I am currently looking for a therapist as you can see from a post a day or two ago but it went bad. I will try two more thing to get into the DBT program I want, my PCP might be able to do the referral/pre-authorization and I will try one more place for a therapist who can do the referral/pre-authorization if it don't work out then I will give up trying and go back to my own self-help ways.