So where do I begin. All I can say it's all over, everything, and my Mom wins.

She'd been acting miserable all week since we had our "talk" last weekend. I went to the pool on Wednesday, and things with my ex-GF were great. The guys at the pool kept telling me that they can see she wants to probably try again, and that I'll have to make the next move. And it was my plan to do so. Thursday she even texted me and called me; she thought if I had time to meet her at the mall to do some Christmas shopping, but I really couldn't - deadline for my project and all.

So Friday as I'm heading out the door, my Mom starts yelling at me, what exactly I don't even remember, but it was about the pool, the people that go there, and my ex-GF. What a show at the front door as I tried to leave; she tried numerous times to grab my keys, and my wallet. She told me she was going to follow me to the pool to do something; I don't recall what exactly she said, it was such a haze. She insists that my car is hers, just because she's covered a few of my monthly car payments, and that I had that "*****" in my car. It just went on and on. And one point she said to tell my ex-GF to come over, and that she wants to talk with her. I said no, that's not happening, she's not coming over for her to interrogate her, she doesn't deserve that. I eventually got to the pool, and immediately talked to my ex-GF. I asked her straight out that I was hoping we could try again, and she agreed that she wanted to. However with this now craziness with my Mom, she said she can't, not like this when I'm in this situation. So there's where that is.

I got home, because my Mom insisted I be home at a certain time, which I was. I stormed in the house and just yelled at her. I cut up my pool pass and threw my wallet, keys and phone at her, told it's all hers, and that I'm never going out anywhere ever again, and that she wins. Long story short, we fought all night till 9:00 am. In her mind, she's done nothing wrong. My ex-GF isn't right for me, and that she feels literally sick, not only about her, but everyone at the pool. I told her I guess I have no free will, and she needs to know everything about me, but she insists that isn't true.

We've been fighting all weekend, and I told she gets wants she wants; I'll be her slave, I'll never leave the house again. I'll go back to work in a few weeks full time, and I'll pay her back what I owe her. I told her to sell the car, because if it's not mine, no point in keeping it just sitting in the garage. She tells me now that it is my car, and that I'm not selling it. Make up her freaking mind!?!?

She wants me to be miserable, fine, I'll be miserable. I told her I'll never forgive her for this, and she doesn't seem to care. She's only concerned about her feelings, and how hurt she was because I started dating someone so suddenly and so fast.

So I doubt I'll be coming back to this forum, because what's the point. As I said, she wins. I can't fight her, or have a rational conversation with her - it's her way or the highway.

Thanks to everyone who contributed in my quest for help, obviously it didn't work as planned. My GF are obviously officially over, and I no longer have a pool pass to even go back - I cut up the pass in my own rage filled anger.