You have your own family now, think about the memories you are helping to create for your kids. Stay at home and I bet you have the best Christmas ever. Your family sound very selfish, it may be time to stand up for you and your family. This is your time now. Hope you have a lovely Christmas.

If you're looking for excuses - 10 hour journey for 3 under 6 can't be fun, no where to stay, your dog, and yeah, the gas money.