My t grew her hair longer and put it back in a pony tail all summer. It annoyed me so much that I didn't want to even look at it. I didn't say anything because although it is an irrational reaction and probably indicative of material for me to work on, I didn't want to seemingly attack her appearance and make her self-conscious. Even tho she's a very experienced t and could handle it. I just didn't want to go there....