Your mother is entitled to her opinion.

As much as you are entitled to totally ignore it.

You are married to good man and have children.

What does your mother have, besides raging negativity?

Are you willing to accept the fact that being angry merely strengthens the bond between you and her? That it takes energy and attention away from YOUR family?

If you want to scream, scream.

If you want to hit her, get a punching bag.

Do what you can to be there for your guy and your kids. As a wife and mother, they are the priority, not listening to her drivel.