As parents we have to face the difference between our ideals and the reality of what we can do and provide for our children. Just because you don't live up to certain standards you set for yourself doesn't mean you are not a good parent. You are human. Give yourself some credit. Be honest with your daughter and just do the best you can. At least you are aware of your situation.
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Originally Posted by Tucson
I did take my daughter to my pdoc to help her understand that I have mood swings and sometimes do goofy things. But I think this is no excuse for not being there for her and making a positive difference in her life.
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I have struggled with this as well. Despite our best intentions, sometimes our good enough is not going to produce our the desired outcome. But all we can do is the best we can and realize our children are resilient.