Ok, fair enough. I was afraid that I would come across as hurtful, and apparently, I did.

That was not my intention, really. I think what I was trying to say was: "Yes, I understand and agree. The same happened to me. However, I would really like to see y'all take this next tough step on the path to recovery, for your own betterment.". That's all.

Sorry if it came across the wrong way.