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Originally Posted by Claritytoo
I have no intention of having a "head honcho/one in charge/ the gate keeper/ the boss/ the captain of the ship...." My gate keepers have their own specific tasks within the system. And the rest of what you have said makes no sense to me. I am not looking for a "boss" I am looking for someone who can be the voice of reason. My parts will always have the ability to do mostly what ever they want. There are two who are in the world who do have the final say in situations that might turn bad. They keep us out of the hospital and jail. And they keep us employed when we are employed. But they don't deal with the everyday stuff. The questions, disagreements, arguments, confusion, fear, anger, (except when we are about to explode). So right now we stay in our groups and often don't know what the other group is doing. We have a part who will try to get the information if asked, only most times we aren't aware we need to ask until someone says something that we did or are supposed to know. Most times I barely remember what I did the day before. I thank you for your input but it is not what I am looking for. No boss, just someone who will get to know everyone, get to know what each group is doing and maybe be able to get us to learn about each other.
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what part of my post doesnt make sense to you? was it the host idea or the orange...
in another thread we were discussing what a host was....here in New York the term host means the biological body person/ the biological body/ person named on the birth certificate...
example the host of my system was amanda because thats the name on the birth certificate. thats the name of the physical body in which everyone lives with in.
that doesnt mean the host is always there, available, reachable. just that everyone has a host (physical body in which they live with in)
the orange example...
have you ever really looked at an orange...an orange is made up of many different parts.
theres the skin (body)
theres the wedges of orange (everything that lives inside the body)
theres a white coating that is inside the skin protecting the wedges. this white coating is between each of the wedges and holding them together at the center point and is between the skin (body)
Just like a person who is DID...
a skin (physical body)
many different parts (the wedges)
protectors that hold everyone together in their groupings and have contact with all the other parts. (the white coating)
thats the basics of every persons internal system of alters. how many parts and what those parts jobs, purposes, reasons for being are is individualized depending upon how that internal system of alters is comprised.
my point was you already have that one you are looking to choose. you just may not have full knowledge of that one yet that is the white coating. for some people it takes many many years of treatment before that one becomes accessible to everyone.
I bet if your system ask around you will eventually find that one that does what you need to be done (communicate with everyone, deal with daily activities ....) it just may take time...
and in the mean time yes it is possible to designate new jobs, to some peoples internal systems of alters, only you and yous system knows whether yours is the kind of system that can evolve like that where you can appoint someone to do this kind of job.