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I found my dad's porno mags and looked at them when I was 9 or 10, and once I played you know, show and tell with the neighbor boys.... but does that mean that there was some kind of sexual abuse? Not in my book it doesn't.

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But to someone educated in child development it might mean something. I think you were at least exposed to adult sex way too early and that may be what she'd like to explore. It's possible the effect(s) of that, which you aren't conscious of, contributed to your idea that being promiscuous (not judging here--so was I) was the way to find love?

I think it bears exploring as everything does. You are free to disagree with her about it and should if you feel that way. But exploring might just be interesting anyway.

I think you should hang in a bit with her.