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Originally Posted by granite1
i often tell my T that i wish she could help me be someone different .a better person. not someone who is so difficult to deal with or be around. we do have this struggle between us about her attitude towards the mother and her treatment of me. she will not back down. although she has said that we may need to agree to disagree.
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I could have written this. I keep insisting to T I just need to learn to be a better daughter. To be kinder and more patient and then I will have a better relationship with my mother. My T recently said the goal was to minimize contact with her
. I was shocked as anything.