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Old Dec 23, 2014, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Soccer mom View Post
How did she respond? My T. once said we were friends. I asked her how she could say such a thing when we can't be friends. She said well we are in therapy an hour a week. I was mad for 2 days about it. Because, I want that more than anything and felt she was making light of it. However, I think it was a little bit of her countertransference as we get along really well and have similar personalities. So, I never brought it up. Probably should have...
about the feeling like a failure part she said "that's not good" And then she said that my difficulties with this relationship tell her how much I want a close mutual relationship in real life. And I would have had the same reaction you did if she ever referred to us as friends!
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