I know you are looking for help to make a choice, but I feel that no matter wha I say or others say it is going to still be hard. I also worry about people havng other input and when things go wrong they blame the ppl the listened to. Not sure if that is you or not, just how I see it. I think you need to find what works best for you and your family. I know I could not sit at home long or be in head long before I started to really go south. I like being out and doing things with others and being in different environment. I hope you find your answer and are comfortable with it, Best if. Luck!