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Old Dec 24, 2014, 06:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Xander187 View Post
disparaissant. where is your son now? and why would u not get him home for xmas? and im depedating on weather to buy xmas presents for anybody. i have no income so i would have to use my moms money. but both my mom and dad and little sister treat me like crap. and my older sister now gets along with me but at one point we did not. when i was gone in afghan i gave her the keys to my appartment i was living in and contorol over my bank acount to make payments for my appartment. i had a dog with me at my appartment so she needed to be taken out in the morning and night and be fed so that is why i gave the keys to my sister. when i came home it was 3am in the morning i was looking forward to getting back and seeing my dog. i came home and door was locked but the inside looked as if somebody broke in and robbed the place. all my electroniccs were missing there was dog poop everywhere you could stand i had all of my guns missing and my pills stollen and all my military gear which costs thousands of dollars. she had robbed me and almost killed my dog. she didnt pay my appartment i got evicted and she cleaned out my bank account. and she was no where to be found none of my family would tell me where she was. i ended up loosing over $10000 in stuff and owing the military $4000 for my missing gear. and had $2000 missing from my bank account. now do i buy these people pressents and rewward them just beecause its tradition to do so? i have to decide by tomorrow. please somebody help me make this dessision
Hi Xander,
Having to buy presents for or even spending Xmas with people that have mistreated you in that way is not good at all. It is traumatizing. I would not do it, unless it is more dangerous for you to stay alone. If you can, go to some place, perhaps there are people that need companion or help today. Once, when I was in the US, I brought food for the metro station agent and spent some time with her, she appreciated a lot. Hope you can recover soon. I am sending you a big hug
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