Oh I have a hard time with contact too. I can give children hugs and affection easily, but not fellow adults. I can give a hug upon seeing someone I haven't seen in ages, or saying goodbye when I won't see them often. Even when others initiate a hug, I'm always sorta held back.
Another success story:
- the first time I went to a movie theatre by myself! This took almost 10 years of actively trying to convince myself to do it before I finally did. I went and watched Alice in Wonderland in Cardiff, because I was out for a walk and it started raining. Yep. It took heavy rain to finally get me to go in and watch a film on my own!
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"The time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of many things. Of shoes, of ships, of sealing wax, of cabbages, of kings! Of why the sea is boiling hot, of whether pigs have wings..."
"I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am.
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