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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I could go against their advice. That is an option. But their is advice is valid. If I make the choice to become pregnant w/o listening and following advice, I feel the choice is selfish. My dream of having a baby isn't just to have a baby. It's also to provide the best life for that baby that I can. I'm not going to change my decision to wait. But it hurts. And the risk might be that I will never have a child.
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sorry mybe the written word isn't clear. My point is that you use language like your dream being taken away but it isn't taken away it's a choice you have made ( a good one I'd say) so rather than grieve your choice being taken away maybe grieve what you are giving up for this relationship.