actually he does have boundary issues. when one flips out because he receives a phone call when i haven't spoken to him for days and needed a friend is over the top. to tell me we will be over if i call him again in a month with no warning that before is not fair. i asked him some time ago what his boundaries were as i didn't want to cross them. he said during our last call that for him these issues don't come up till about the thirty date mark. how the %#@&#! am i suppoed to know that! my dating experience has been vastly different. i don't think it is fair to turn so quickly. he gave no sign what so ever that it was this serious. we had talked about it but he never said please don't call me or i'll flip out. nope, i don't think that is normal. i mean surely a 10 minute phone call a week is not too much to ask is it? is that really so stressful for some people. 10 minutes. in a week. give me a break!
i plan on working through this with him when i can but having left the converstaionas it was and having to wait so long is quite stressing. i just don't get it.