I'm so sorry
I hope taking your hubby along to see your T is an option as it may just be the catalyst for change you need.
It's easy to say "don't expect them to understand, they can't" but when their ignorance impacts us negatively, its imperative that they get clued up. It's more than enough to have to deal with these issues alone, having our loved ones add to that plate of bullshytt is just not an option.

I hope you like it here at our online home and that you make lots of friends here.
I know I sure have *smiles and winks as she references her sister ~Chris