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Dec 24, 2014, 07:35 PM
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Member Since: Sep 2014
Location: Pa
Posts: 307
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i think a doctor or counselor needs to challenge me and if I am happy when I sit in their office I am being fake. I also know that if I agree with everything they say then there is no point of me being there. I am challenged a lot and need that to grow. If I am not, I feel I am screwed royally. When my coach asks me what I want, I tell him straight out. He then either asks me reason and processes it with me or goes over different view then I have in my altered perception. I know I have mood swings and I go through rapid cycles which sometimes screws with my perception. I also know if it was not for him, I would not have learned tapping, mood stabilizing techniques, or being mindful about judgements. I can be judgemental and if not for his view, I still be stuck where I was. All I am saying is that perhaps this is your challenge and it could be beneficial if you work with it. My coach tells me straight. I have the work to do, not him. Hope this helps. I can tell you, I used to be one p off mother f. I gave that up because it was not working. It only caused me harm and those around me. 
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