You have some things to be grateful for. I know a few people who'd do anything for a job. And my sister in law has stage 4 cancer. It's all over her body. She's probably going to die and she's just enjoying every morning she wakes up and breathes air. She used to sound a lot like you and since she's gotten cancer her whole perspective has changed. She sees beauty and comfort in a leaf on a tree. Things you and I don't really even notice. It's all about perspective and what you MAKE important to you. If getting a girl is your only goal and until you do you'll feel like a loser then you're fighting an uphill battle. You might try finding comfort and beauty in other things and let the girls figure out you're more of a human being than most jack*** guys who only chase girls.