Thanks guys. Haha Hanks. If i were closer i would have come down your chimney last night. Do you like short,fat, bald men with a white bristly beard and a big sack. I've been leaving little presents in socks for years haha Yep lack of self esteem and poor self image is my biggest problem. It's not that the house is that dirty ( not like some of these hoarding programmes), just half finished. Half finished kitchen, half finished bathroon and just needs re-decoration. Like i said i need the love of a good woman to give me a kick up the bum and a loving relationship to look forward to to do it. Happy Christmas guys. And girls if you do choke on a pudding this christmas , i hope he was worth it.