>dump a guy over something like that without any other reason has their priorities all screwed up
Thanks for your post. I said it was one of the reasons. She also had another reasons, such as my depression, insecure behavior and lack of self-esteem.

>to do it when you're vulnerable because of how this issue was making you feel is just cruel.
Yeah, its kind of funny, that she encouraged me to get of zoloft, but when i did, she found out she that doesn't love me anymore.

>You ask what the point is in finding another girl? Because not all women are so shallow.
Maybe not all of them are shallow, but 99% of women need quality sex. You love your guy, despite the premature issue, and i admire you for that. But majority of girls would dump that kind of a guy in a second, when they getting to know some high-testosterone beast, who can have sex with them for hours and make them have one orgasm after another, few times at day, because its much more satisfying. Its a sad fact. I feel like a failure because i can't offer anything like that. Why bother with sex therapist and stuff, if a girl is attractive and can find 10 other guys who will be obviously better in bed than current boyfriend?

>My whole point is that this isn't your fault, so don't blame yourself. And this doesn't make you less of a man.
Thank you for the words. I find it hard to believe, but i will try to convince myself.