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Originally Posted by AlwaysChanging2
I've been a member of another forum site in good standing, I think, and made lots of friends. I always try to be helpful and compassionate, but I think I crossed the line last night, at least one of my alters did.
I logged on this morning and found a lot of mad peeps. On my private account I found harsh and nasty remarks to another person hurting. I was and still am shocked! The wording was rude, crude and brutish.
Most of them can't understand my situation even though I am them in one of my conditions. I suggested my other condition, but just can't help to think that they might think of it as a bogus excuse- blame it on a convenient "make believe condition".
I'm in tears. That's just so not me! 
I apologized and said my sorries and offered to disappear. I'm so mad at me, or he that did that. I feel in conflict.
Does anyone else's alter cross the line and causes problems? Mine has lost us a few jobs lately. It seems that we are stepping out into unacceptable grounds. We had a meeting, but how do you control this?
I don't know what to do. What would you do?  |
with me there was no controlling my alters. they were just doing what ever their job, purpose reason for being was. but I had to understand even though it was an alter acting out we all had to take responsibility. in the normal world having mental disorders is not an acceptable excuse for bed behavior. some places have laws that allow less strict punishment for when mentally ill people act out but thats not on the internet. the internet has no laws and standards like the outside world does. on the internet all you can do is explain what the problem is and then let the others who found the behavior offensive decide for their self whether they want to stay friends with you or not. if not you move on, just like off the internet if people dont want to be your friend you cant force them. all you can do is do what you can right.