Perhaps you are sending out signals without being
aware of it,that you are a victim. On the other hand,
there are many,many people who are mentally sick
and feel bad about themselves,to alleviate that,they
attack others,with the totally crazy belief that this
raises them up somehow. If I were you I would
start learning assertiveness,and study how to achieve self-esteem. In the short term,tell them to
piss off ! You have a RIGHT to get angry when people disrespect you--exercise that right.
Respectfully,
BLUEDOVE