I am so sorry that your mental health problems have cost you so much. Have u tried to get into FBT. It is such a waste that u r living on SSDI as intelligent as you are. I am also in VA and have been around this block a lot so if u want to PM me for anything let me know.
My sons are also addicted to weed and I hate it. Until they decide to STOP nothing I can do but love them unconditionally.