Thread: My Mother
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Old Dec 25, 2014, 05:54 PM
MisterUnderstood MisterUnderstood is offline
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I don't know if this forum is specifically intimate relationships, but I need some help with my mother. I don't know what to do. She won't listen to anyone else (psychiatrists, psychologists, a social worker) and I can't deal with it anymore. She constantly gets into fights with me and I feel like I get closer and closer to just ending my relationship with her. No talking or anything. I'm only 17 (18 in mid-August), so I can't leave the house and I can't do anything at all without her consent. I've been hospitalized three times for attempted suicide, and two out of the three, they wanted to medicate me. She refused to give consent, and I ended up as miserable as when I went in. The social worker that DCF sends weekly tells her to go to family counseling and individual therapy for both of us. She tells me that it's my problem and that I'm the only one who needs therapy. I can't take it anymore. I'm so sick of her nagging, I'm sick of her telling me that there's nothing wrong with me and I'm just spoiled, and I'm sick of dealing with her. What do I do? All of my family sides with her just so she'll shut up and stop whining, so I can't move in with any of them because although it'll be less drama, I'll still end up on nothing. I used to be on a couple meds, and tbh I probably felt the most sane on Wellbutrin, but I made a deal with her to quit meds in exchange for her quitting pot (a promise she broke within 2 weeks). Does anyone have any advice for dealing with her? And for the record, I can't ask my father because he won't go against her because she'll rage at him, so he just agrees to shut her up too. I just don't know what to do anymore..
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