your fiance sounds nasty, scarlet pimpernel. i would really examine your relationship with him. you sound much kinder and more thoughtful.

truth be told, it is not your t's decision when you get pregnant or not. you can choose to start dbt or not do it. it's your body, your pregnancy. just make sure you are making the right decision.

i just do not feel that a guy who needs therapy and has anger and stress issues is ready to be a father. but you seem to be ready to be a mother.

have you looked into adopting? i know, its a hard decision. you do what you feel is right.