I don't think you are expecting too much. I think, to respond to your letter would be a normal human reaction that anyone would expect. It does sound very hurtful after 13 years of knowing you and I absolutely understand why you are hurting. I would be hurting too. I am really sorry this happened to you. I can't speculate on why your old T didn't respond and what her thought process was, but it's perfectly normal to expect a response in this situation and also to respond to the letter. So, I guess, I just want to validate how you are feeling and that you are not expecting too much. You are expecting what every normal person would expect.