I would love to hear your opinions on what makes a good parent. I used to think that it was solely based on what you could provide to your child in terms of education, food, shelter, and the like. But now I realize there is also the emotional support factor.

I think my parents did a solid job with the first part. They are very good at giving me the things you can purchase with money that facilitate successful growth. Especially considering that they immigrated to America with broken English and very little money, they have more than exceeded my expectations as providers.

But there is hardly a day where I feel like I can connect with them properly. I don't think they are very good listeners. They say they will listen, but they do most of the talking. Slowly, I have learned to not say anything because my opinion will just be rejected anyway.

I am not a parent, but I would love to have kids in the future. Currently 22. Not rushing to find a significant other or anything like that. I just wish to gain some perspective on good supportive parenting since I have little example by which to follow. I am afraid of unintentionally harming my children if I cannot give them what they need emotionally.

What stories, ideas, or tips do you guys have on this topic?