This negativity is self-destructive . . .in a sneaky
way. Ask him to try not to judge,becauseee,it hurts
him too,though he doesn't realize it,thus: It is like
sending out a creeper of poison ivy so that it stings
the other,and sting them it may do,but the ROOT
of the poison stays with the sender,because it first
has to arise in his brain,and that's where it hides,
bet he don't feel good about himself,and no wonder.
In short,what he is doing to,and towards others,
he is doing to himself--and who want's to hurt
themselves?