I agree about thicker being better too. Length doesn't seem to make much of a difference to me... Maybe cuz I'm so short? I also seem to be lucky (and I guess my present partner is lucky too) that I have an abnormally narrow cervix so a penis that's on the small-side is fine with me. I have to admit it felt quite different with men who had a lot more girth, though... not that I'm unsatisfied or anything... just finding it all new and rather curious.