a lot of people here are depressed and unstable and need the support of the comunity. (which is why sites like this exist), so that people who do need this type of support can get it.

i'm pretty sure a lot of people here (me included), would disagree about the low self esteem part. but again, that's why we're here as well. to make you feel better about yourself and to give you help and ideas.

you can't blame yourself for having ADHD. that's not your fault at all. i'd go as far to say that their's a section here related to ADHD (but i can't actually find it. lol) but i know that their is. somewhere.

and as for the rest?

i'm a girl myself, and i too never did any of what you said. dated, talk to a guy on the phone, hold a guy's hand, kiss.. i've not done any of that stuff.

hell i couldn't even make it through college

so all is not lost... really.

keep posting here