This video describes what I see all the time, but I watched this months ago it was very nice watch.

The logic is very simple observation. It's just ignored so much, and it's why I make a lot of negative remarks towards relationships in general. I find it sometimes almost depressing, but I don't believe it just to keep me sane. Well to put it clearly, I just don't let it get to me. Despite statistics. I'm not afraid to fail, but I don't want to marry anyone, because of this. It's been apart of me since day one. I never saw it easy with my parents, I think I was lying to myself maybe it be fun, but in actuality it's not. It's not going to be like, that, people want to restrict and be too serious, and some people want to be too casual and just let things fall apart leaving one of us hanging. No real commitment of passion or effort, rather it's more a burden keeping the borders up in case someone else decides to bomb the bomb shelter in your heart.