Hi. I have had a lot of experience in dealing with toxic people. I have a son who is a Narcissist and I can't even talk to him sometimes. Everything I say is a personal attack against him. I have come to set boundaries with him and others that are this way. You must not let them drain you of all you got. Sometimes there isn't any way of helping someone no matter how much they might need it. They have to WANT to be helped. Don't let guilt get to you, it will eat you alive. You are only human and who says you have to be the one who FIXES this person? Take care of yourself first.