Hi. I am kind of going through the same thing. I have this friend who is a guy. He's not my boyfriend but we chill together and he brings me down. He makes me lose my self respect. He is very selfish and only looks out for himself. I keep telling myself to let him go I don't need him and then when he calls I jump. It's crazy! But I do know If I don't do something I will just keep feeling bad about myself.