Hi. I over react to everything. My husband will tell me I am and I feel so stupid for reacting. It's like I can't stop myself before the words come out and then when they do I regret it or feel stupid. I guess acceptance is the answer. Just accept yourself for who you are. If you don't like something about yourself you can try to change it, but it doesn't happen over night. Be patient with yourself and your husband and it will all work out.